1985. A flat in Grey Lynn. There are six of us; all in our 20s and a mix of students and recently-minted teachers. It’s a sociable flat, into which friends, neighbours and extended family members are welcomed. We eat together most nights and hang out at the weekends; going to movies, concerts, parties, nightclubs. I’m meant to be writing a Master’s thesis, but realise part way through the year that I find the topic monumentally boring. The effort I should make trying to resolve this problem is instead diverted into listening to music and experiments in film-making.
Sometime in that year, “the flat” goes to see the movie Stop Making Sense. We’ve been listening to Talking Heads and the related band Tom Tom Club, and the film doesn’t disappoint.
I love all the songs from that album, so I guess there is no particular significance in my choice of Burning Down the House to share as part of 30 Days, 30 Songs, a challenge devised by Sarah at Art Expedition. You can see her latest song choice here.
Great song, Su. I spent many a night procrastinating and listening to music rather than writing essays so I can completely relate. Did you end up finishing your thesis?
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I did. Well, I started again with a completely different topic and wrote it in about 10 weeks — looming deadlines being wonderful for focusing the mind.
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A big congratulations for getting it done, Su. It can’t have been easy.
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Finding a topic I really cared about was the key thing. I switched from a practical (but boring) thesis on research evaluation to one on feminist film-making. 😂😂
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Much more interesting. 🙂
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Yeah. I still wonder what I was thinking when I chose the first one 🤨
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How lovely to have a peek at your former self – lovely trip down memory lane. I’m afraid music has never played much of a part in my life after the age of about 19. Certain songs remind me of certain parts of my life, but I don’t listen to music very often now except when driving.
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Thanks Jude. I’m much the same these days, but T loves his music so often has various internet radio stations playing — and my son loves music too, so when he lived with us there always seemed to be music playing.
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The OH is a musician so I do hear music in the background, often his.
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I wonder how many people come to feel that way about their thesis?
Leslie
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Too many I suspect. I have three friends who got lost in increasingly irrelevant and unsatisfying PhDs for over a decade. When I finally settled on a topic, I wrote the whole thing in 10 weeks.
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Good job – 10 weeks – not too shabby…
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Looming deadlines make wonderful motivators!!
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They do indeed!
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Trying to think who you remind me of this time. Chrissie Hynd? Not dark haired enough, but you do have a rock star cool!
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I’ll take Christie Hynd — one of my heroes.
These days I am regularly mistaken for a TV psychic, which makes for the very predictable response “I knew you were going to say that.” I’ve had kids wanting selfies with me, Air NZ cabin crew gush over “my show” and even requests I pick the winning lottery numbers. Actually, I didn’t know anyone was going to say THAT.
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You should get an upgrade from Air NZ on the strength of that!
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As if!! With all the travel that T does you’d think he’d get good service (he’s in their top tier loyalty programme), but the last couple of years there have been so many problems. We’re seriously looking at ditching Air NZ and flying with other airlines.
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We feel the same about BA and Heathrow.
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My nephew loved that song when he was a little boy!
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Cool. I love the way kids respond to music.
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I really like that self portrait Su!
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Thanks Darren; I just look at it and wonder how I survived living in a small room with that wallpaper 🙂
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Great song, but what I really love is this beautiful self-portrait!!❤
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Thank you. I look at it now and wonder how I survived a whole year living in a room with such, er, striking wallpaper.
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Hehe! 😉 I once stayed in a B&B for four weeks when on an archeological dig in southern Germany where they had that psychedelic carpet to hide stains and such – I had nightmares of it!! 😀
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Ew! Somehow knowing that the carpet was chosen partly to hide stains makes it seem worse. 🙂
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It does, doesn’t it? 😉
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