
The cold has lingered longer than expected, so despite putting in the hard yards reading recipe books and magazines, I wasn’t up to baking for our afternoon tea.
Instead, I nipped out and bought some raw chocolate peppermint slice. Dairy and gluten-free, it’s made with nuts and coconut oil and cacao, with a little coconut sugar for sweetness.
A bit creamy, quite minty and delicious, it’s kind on my recovering immune system. And did I mention it’s delicious?
I’ve been thinking a lot about my eating habits style preferences lately. I know friends and family would like me to just “come out” as a vegetarian, or a vegan, or gluten-free, dairy-free — a label they could get their heads around. But the truth is; apart from baked beans, cooked avocado (yes, I’ve actually been served that), pizza with sweetcorn and/or pineapple, and anything swimming in salad cream — I’ll eat pretty much anything.
And if someone else has cooked it for me, I’ll say thank you and find something — however small — that I can truthfully praise.
I’m trying to find a way to explain that my food preference are really a food philosophy. I want to “do good”; for my physical and mental health, for my bank balance, for small businesses, and for the environment. That means I eat home-grown where I can, buy as much as possible from local, preferably organic growers, avoid foods and manufacturers I believe to be harmful or unethical … and a bunch more considerations I won’t bore you with but which make trips to the supermarket time-consuming, frustrating and really difficult without my strong glasses to read the small print.
I know that’s a roundabout way of selling you on the raw vegan mint slice, but it really is delicious.
And the drinks …
Despite the dry weather, my herb garden is thriving, so I’ve harvested some mint and lemon balm to brew our cuppa. There’s raw honey from my friend Duncan’s bees to sweeten it, and some local lemons if you’d like to add a slice.
But if you’d prefer, I can make you some builders’ tea (old-school with milk and sugar if that takes your fancy). Or there’s some Sencha green tea if you’d like something lighter that’s not mint! Both of these come from my local tea shop.
So pull up a chair and let’s put the world to rights over afternoon tea.
The invitation
I was so pleased to get positive feedback on my last tea party, that I’m going to continue to post once a month — mid-week, mid-month probably — at least for the rest of 2020.
I’d love to read your thoughts on the food, the drinks, whatever I’m rambling about. A few words about what you’re doing/reading/making. What’s making you happy or pissing you off? Your comments make blogging so much more interesting.
And if you’d like to contribute a post of your own — great. Maybe a shot of your cuppa and/or whatever you’re having with it, A recipe?
I’ll update each of my posts with a ping-back to everyone’s in the same way as I do with The Changing Seasons.
#virtualteaparty2020 for anyone on Instagram who wants to post images (or video?)
I’d love to be part of a global rolling tea party. Hopefully a few of you would too.
Update
Brian at Bushboy’s World has polished the silverware and provided some music.
Del at Curls n Skirls has brought some delicious “traditional bread and butter sandwiches, hot buttered toast, and maybe a few raspberry jam sandwiches, .. and a fresh Raisin Spice cake.” Yum!
Sue at Words Visual enjoyed tea (or coffee) with friends. And it was obviously delicious — judging by the empty plates and cups.
Anabel at Glasgow Gallivanter has shared not only a rather sumptuous cream tea (in a beautiful wee cafe), but shared her thoughts on eating ethically and well too.
Manja at Manja Mexi Mexcessive brings us a cornucopia of tea (and coffee)-drinking images.
Ju-Lyn at All Things Bright and Beautiful
What a delightful post (and tea), Su! Sorry, though, that your still not feeling back to your usual self. Labels. Worth looking at closely if on food and good not to stick on people. We did vegan for a year and oddly enough I missed cheese much more than meat. There are some delicious faux meats, but are their ingredients really healthier? Often they have almost the same fat/etc. profile as real meat.
I, like you, try to eat organic/local/and so for as much as possible. In the US, the Environmental Working Group has a list that comes out each year of the Dirty Dozen and the Clean Fifteen, the 12 you would be well off to buy organic and the 15 that are quite safe when grown conventionally. You can get the app for your smart phone so you can easily check when at the store. I like to buy at the farmer’s market when it’s open but often there’s local produce in the store, too. Lots of stores have organic and/or local, making it easier, although if you don’t have much money, it’s still hard to eat like that.
At any rate, I’d love to join you for tea. Your herbal tea sounds delicious as does the sencha. Sometimes I’m in the mood for something strong, but I take no milk or sugar with any of it. Not sure if I’ll have a post to link, as I’m out of time and no time for tea at this time of evening, but perhaps later in the week? We’ll see.
Cheers!
janet
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Thank you Janet. I am feeling better tonight than I have for about a week. Despite the humidity T and I had a long walk this evening and it was lovely.
I found myself nodding in agreement with so much of your comment. I can happily skip meat – or treat it as a garnish – but I love cheeses!! I’m not into faux meat — mainly because I actually like vegetables and grains and legumes and I think fake meats just perpetuate a belief that meat is the star of a dish.
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A lovely idea Su, I often think it would be fantastic to have a get together with my favourite bloggers. But they are all over the world. So a virtual tea party in this day and age is a great alternative. At the moment we are into finding out about “ikigai” I have mentioned it in a recent post. I rather like the philosophy, similar to Buddhism and many other eastern cultures of living in the moment. That slice sounds so yummy. I am not too fussy about food, the one constant is not eating red meat and chicken only once a month and mainly vegetarian with the addition of fish. I’m trying to limit challenges etc. but I will definitely pop over to see how the get together goes. Hope you are soon fully recovered.🤗💕
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I saw that post Pauline, and Googled ikigari. I can really see the value in being mindful of what it is that rasp has of us find worthwhile. For me, it has always been my family and these days, increasingly, my garden and the sense that I can repair a tiny patch of Earth that has been neglected.
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I agree about the garden Su. So soothing to spend time in it
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I’m in Su I have a seafood diet….I see food and eat it 😀 😀
http://bushboy.blog/2020/02/18/a-cuppa-with-su/
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You’re my favourite kind of guest Brian 👍👍
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Yup, I’m with you on your eating philosophy, so I really must plan that virtual tea party. Hope you get fit soon.
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Thank you; I’m feeling better each day.
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That does look delicious, Su. This afternoon, my son brought fish and chips home. I feel guilty now for eating the chips. I was really hungry. No photos as I gobbled them up too quickly. I must buy some fish for a fish curry. We have cravings at the moment.
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What sort of fish curries do you make? My default was always a Thai green curry, but I had an amazing malabar fish curry in a restaurant recently and it’s become my new favourite.
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I don’t make them, Su, but I have a craving for one. The last fish curry I had was at a Nepalese restaurant in Hawks Nest. It was divine. Probably be easier just to make one rather than drive there though.
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Ah! I have struggled (in NZ) to find restaurant curries that aren’t over-salty and really heavy on the sauces. The exceptions have been in really unlikely places, like Timaru, where I had the malabari curry.
Given that Nepal is land-locked, I wonder if the original dish uses freshwater fish? Did yours? I am so nosy!
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They definitely used saltwater fish, Su. Perhaps because it was a seaside town. You would love Hawks Nest. It is surrounded by national park. Very quite in the off season. It is north of Newcastle.
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That sounds lovely. My visits to Aus tend to focus on Melbourne (T’s work trips and to visit friends) and Sydney (art exhibitions). Time to broaden my horizons!
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Your raw chocolate mint slice looks yummy, you do present food well! My neighbour has a raw chocolate company, which makes chocolate ‘pies’, dairy free, gluten free etc but I can’t eat them. They act like a laxative! Just as well really! We went veggie for a year, tried vegan but I like cheese too much and a lot of replacement milks aren’t great for the environment either. We’re low carb at the moment so back on meat and chicken and fish. Vegan menus seem very high in carbs, and I’m not convinced by meat replacements. I’ll pass on the tea (coffee for me☕), but it’s been nice chatting with you 🙂
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Oh dear; shame about the raw chocolate. When I was at high school “sharing” laxative chocolate was considered a huge joke. Aren’t kids cruel!
I used to be strictly vegetarian, then pescatarian. Now I really can’t be doing with labels at all.
I occasionally feel like eating meat, and find that a very small portion is perfectly fine. I love cheeses and find them by far the most difficult animal product to give up.
I’m also not a fan of plant-based milks — almond milk seems like a real environmental nightmare — nor replacement meats. I do eat (and like) tofu, but generally if I’m eating plant-based it’s as curries, stir-fries or salads; not pretend-meat burgers or “steaks.” 🤨
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Currently a roast veg tagine is my favourite meal with a dollop of natural yoghurt! Veg soups are also great in winter months.
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Oh yum. I don’t own a proper tagine, but lust after one. They’re quite expensive here and I suspect the casserole dishes I do h e will be quite up to the job, but I do have ceramic cookware last in my heart.
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I just throw the veg into an enamel roasting tin with oil and spices, works a treat. I do like the shape of the traditional tagine and almost bought one from Ludlow market, but decided it would be too big for my oven.
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Sounds great, and I don’t even have to ask for the recipe because I’m sure it will be fine to make up as I go along 😀
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Some of the best meals come from making it up. This was a take on a Jamie Oliver recipe.
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Totally agree! Years ago we found a Nigella Lawson chicken recipe that morphed into our go-to dish for guests. By the time I made it last, it bore no resemblance to her original recipe, but we still refer to it as “Nigella Chicken” — even when made with tofu 🙂
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I love this dish too Jude. I use Moroccan and chilli spices and add garlic cloves and in the last 10 minutes add baby tomatoes often serve it with salmon, yummmmm
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*lust*
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Thanks for the invite, Su, the slice looks delicious! I’ll do a post at some stage
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Yay! That would be great Sue 😀
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oooo – a global tea party!! What a lovely idea.
It’s 7:30 am and I’m currently having my first (ok, only) coffee of the day and it’s delicious. It’s a bold roast, freshly ground, called Kicking Horse … with a splash of cream. Give or take 30 minutes I’ll be primed for the day 😏
Hope your’s is a good one!
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Joanne–I laughed when I read the name of your coffee! You are such a go-getter that the name of that coffee sounds so perfect for you!
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I think this coffee company also has a Kicking Ass coffee 🙂
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The closest we come to that here is Bad Ass coffee company. Kicking Ass is so much better! 😀
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As long as the coffee is good 🙂
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Kicking Horse; Very cool name for a coffee.
Mine is the 8.30 house blend, which confusingly I won’t make until after 10am. 😬
I’m trying to limit my hours of food consumption to 10am-8pm. Mornings are easier than evenings, especially when it’s light til almost 9pm.
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Yikes. 10 am sounds rather scary to me. I’m often up at 5:30 and this morning it was 5 am. That would be a long wait for food!
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Wow. I thought I was an early riser! I thought I’d struggle with it too, but I realised that breakfast is mostly about ritual for me, and as such can be done later.
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I guess the body can be trained so that it doesn’t feel so hard. For a long time I followed an 8 to 8 rule, but it’s been slipping for a while. Sadly, I can do a lot of damage between 8 and 8.
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Me too!
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I’ve been thinking about my food choices recently too and have made some changes. Having said that, I’ve just demolished a donut! Don’t judge, I’m with my mum while her boiler is being replaced and we need comfort food. If I get time, I’ll try to compose a post soon – I like this idea.
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No judgement! There’s nothing like a good doughnut. I haven’t had one for ages because they seem to have grown larger over the years, and I haven’t learned to stop when my body’s had enough. 😀
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You set such a lovely table, Su. The cutlery, the mug, and that lovely dessert! Presentation looms large in my world so I love this. You are a most gracious hostess.
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Thank you Lois. I really believe that we eat with our eyes first, and I try to make food appetising.
And if I’m honest, it’s a great excuse to scour thrift shops for pretty cutlery and crockery 😉
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I love these tea parties! And will participate when I’m feeling better. The treats you were having intrigues me. I’ve truly never heard of it. I’m going to have to see if it exists anywhere near me.
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Hope you feel better soon. Have the meds helped your cough?
Sweet food that’s variously gluten-free, dairy-free, raw, vegan, etc have become really common here, and the Web seems awash with recipes. I made a chocolate, raspberry slice recently that used buckwheat as the base, chia-seeds to “set” the raspberries into jam, and coconut oil to set the chocolate. It has to be stored in the fridge, but tastes fabulous.
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That mint slice looks fantastic Su and contains the two magic ingredients: chocolate and coconut 🙂
I’m a life-long veggie so the current fad for veganism here is easy for me. Though I got extremely grumpy when my local Caffe Nero recently switched normal croissants for vegan raspberry ones. I’d be up for trying a vegan one, sure, but not with sodding raspberry jam in it – I would prefer to add my own extras thank you 😦
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How bizarre! I prefer to get my food plain and add extras too.
I’ve had some fabulous vegan food, usually dishes from cultures that aren’t heavily meat or dairy-based. I’m not a fan of fake meat or vegan cheese, partly because they never quite replicate the original but mostly because they draw attention to the fact that the focus of that dish is the ingredient that’s absent. There are so many great recipes that focus on plants.
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Same here. Hate fake meat and especially quorn. And the most popular Indian restaurant in Lancaster mystifies me with its popularity because the veggie dishes are obviously meat options with the meat left out, whereas our favourite place in nearby Preston is proper South Indian and totally veggie and the food is amazing.
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So much veggie food in restaurants here is exactly the same; and they charge as much for a few slices of limp courgette as for a dish with meat!
T and I watched an American documentary about high-performance athletes who are vegan — which was interesting, but when it talked about actual food, it all seemed to be alternatives to burgers and barbecue and mac’n’cheese. I had no idea macaroni cheese was such a huge thing in the States.
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I had no idea either. I can get that for meat eaters wanting to reduce meat then the fake stuff is a good idea in moderation but it sadly shows a lack of imagination when there are such nice properly plant based meals out there .
At least these days I can eat out easily – not so long ago most places would have a single grudging veggie option on the menu – usually lasagne or mushroom stroganoff, neither of which I like.
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Neither of those could be called my favourite either.
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I’ll be right over Su. My husband is out shovelling snow. I just hope his pants don’t fall down like they did last time.
Leslie xoxo
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Hehe. Not a good time to lose your trousers 🤣🤣
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You’ve got that right…. 😉
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This looks delicious, but baked beans on toast can be good in their own way too!
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It’s the texture of baked beans. Just thinking about it makes me gag. But I totally get how satisfying simple comfort food can be.
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My sweetheart is the same with mushrooms.
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Now mushrooms I love!
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And here’s me, late but not quite as it’s still Tuesday over here. Su, will bring over a bit of cake for you provided I can stir it up tonight. Was going to save some spice cake from last month, but. . . well, it was too good to stay frozen. What can I say… 😇
Hang in there on your foody choices as they about match mine, minus the garden things as I don’t have one. (Meh!)
All for now but more later, including a post. Fingers crossed. 😘
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Got my post posted, and here’s the link: https://wp.me/p2ynvT-2Op
Your raw chocolate peppermint slice looks soo good! Trade you some of that for some spice cake. 😘
I’m told there are good ethnic restaurants here (southeast U.S.), but I’ve yet to find them. I vividly remember all the glorious Indian restaurants in Silicon Valley. Agreed! The south Indian veggie items were wonderful! Not being a curry fan, I would always get matar paneer (hope that’s spelt properly), and a particular rice pudding… Namaste to all. 🙏🏼
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I love spice cakes, so you’re on!
I have learned over the years that there are some curries that I don’t like — generally those that contain a lot of chilli and/or fenugreek. But I love lots of other spice blends. I particularly like the combinations used in Thai food.
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Now that’s a new thought-different kinds of curries use different spices. (Can you tell I haven’t learnt much about curries?!) Will have to explore, as I don’t care for whichever is in the U.S. version of “chili powder” but I do like black peppercorns. I’ve heard of fenugreek but that’s about all. Come to think of it, I remember something pod-like that I really didn’t care for, but it wouldn’t have been in a curry and I don’t remember what it was. . .
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My reason for hating fenugreek is weirdly personal. It’s the only food I’ve ever eaten that I sweat out, complete with the smell. Even a tiny amount and my armpits smell like an Indian restaurant 🤣🤣
Because I’m biased towards Thai curries, I’m sending this link https://www.onegreenplanet.org/vegan-food/the-ultimate-guide-to-thai-curries-learn-how-to-make-a-curry-paste/
Panang curries are my current favourite, along with Malabari curry which is Indian and has a lot of turmeric and curry leaves.
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Thank you for the link, Su! Will investigate further as soon as I’m home …
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Looked up fenugreek and learned a fair bit. Thank you again for the reference! This may have been the pod I didn’t like, as it brought on lots of sweat, although not to your degree… I don’t think. 😉
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I keep missing your Tuesday posts! I’m sorry to hear your cold has lasted longer than expected. It’s horrible when they linger! I hope you feel better soon. I’ve been consuming muffins with my tea. Victoria sponge muffins with jam in the middle. It is sweet and tart and very delicious!
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Thank you so much.
Victoria sponge muffins sound delicious. Hope you are settling in well and all finding your groove in London.
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This is such a nice invitation that I’ve had it open and just looked at it all day. Sandy and The Sandy Chronicles has posted her Friendly Friday coffee conversations today and I think I’ll join both, if you don’t mind. I don’t know when though, busy weekend ahead. I love peppermint tea, and mint and chocolate is a favourite blend of tastes. Don’t mind if you do. Thank you.
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I love you to join the party. It’s an open invitation — no time limit.
We can stroll in the garden while we pick mint for the tea.
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Well, I’ve just created a post, Su, but it’s more ‘after the tea party’!! https://suejudd.com/2020/02/21/too-late-for-tea-or-coffee/
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I’m so sorry to hear that your cold still hangs on. (Btw I wrote a couple of comments in the past weeks to your posts but maybe they landed in spam?) Anyway, I really love your post, it has all I love in it: wonderful and.yummy food, deep thoughts and a beautiful picture on top! I couldn’t agree more on your food philosophy – I notice how I get more and more involved in thoughts like these too. And how annoying it is when other people don’t care about or simply don’t get it. And yes – NO to all the things you’ve mentioned you don’t eat. 😉
I still think you should write your own cooking/baking book, including your own photos and I think that adding your thoughts about food and the philosophy involved would make it fantastic!
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I’m so sorry about the comments. I’ve checked my spam folders and have to confess the problem is just me being useless.
I sort of lost my blogging mojo being sick and not taking photos, and I’ve not been very systematic getting back to it.
I was having a little rant at the boy-child about his time-management skills (lack of) and realised I’m not that much better. I marvel at people who seem to make every hour productive and definitely need to know their secrets.
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Hehe! I marvel at those people too. 😉 Hope you’ll feel better soon!! 💕
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Thank you my friend. So do I. The sun is shining here, I have a list of interesting things to do and I’m ankle-deep in used Kleenex sneezing like a mad thing. 😦
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Oh dear! I’m trying to retreat a little from the blogging world and live a little more in the real one, but here you are with blandishments! And very tempting ones. And conversations I can’t resist reading on the way down. Darn it! 🙂 🙂
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Sorry 😬
I sympathise. I feel very busy in the physical world and struggling to keep up with the virtual. But it’s the conversations that bring me back.
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And this is such a hard to resist theme! I wish I’d thought of it, but you’re doing it better than I could. 🙂 🙂
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Thank you so much Jo 🙏
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I’m very glad to join your virtual party. Coffee, tea, cake, everything goes. No personal recipe this time but plenty of little breaks. Buon appetito!
https://mexcessive.photo.blog/2020/02/25/friendly-friday-tea-coffee-conversations/
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Yay. It’s wonderful to have you with us.
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Delicious; and what a fabulous cup. Thanks so much for joining us, and sharing this recipe.
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