With the current lock-down over, technically I am able to leave Auckland. However, as there are still cases of Covid-19 being transmitted within the city, I think I’ll be staying put a while longer. My desire for a holiday isn’t greater than my respect for the health of other New Zealanders.
So today’s #notheretoday is a little different. It’s certainly true that I can’t currently ravel to England, but the physical and geographical barriers are less in my mind than the temporal one.
“The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there.” — LP Hartley “The Go-Between.”
No longer is my son small enough to pick up and hold in my arms. He now has a full set of (beautifully regular) adult teeth, and there’s a different aesthetic at play in his choice of t-shirt.
But the smile is the same; he still has the dog, and I love the twenty-two year old boy-child with as much intensity and absolute joy as ever.
A little time travel would be wonderful. I’d love to go back and hold my girls in my arms that way. Now I can’t even pick up my grandsons that way! Time passes so quickly.
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Too quickly. And I feel that we’re missing so much at the moment. I’ve hardly seen our three year old sort-of great nephew this year and in every photo of him, he looks so much bigger and older.
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Sweet. My little boy is big now, too.
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🙂 they grow up too fast. Though admittedly I can only say that now; at the time he drove me nuts!
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If you are in a happy state of mind, travelling back in time is a great experience, especially when you embrace your child again in your sweet memories. Have a great week, Su!
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Thank you so much Peter. I hope you are having a good week too.
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Look at you! You are beaming!
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Hehe … or girning. He was getting pretty heavy!
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Ha! They tend to do that 😁
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He’s a fine young man now Su.
Leslie xoxo
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He is. Like so many young people, his work and study have been disrupted by the pandemic and I’m incredibly proud of how resilient he is.
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Our granddaughter is going into her third year at university. She’s looking forward to getting back to it.
Leslie
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I bet she is!
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Ah, sweet memories. My youngest son now has a son of his own, can’t wait to see him! But not until I can have a cuddle 🙁
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Hopefully soon!
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How very well said.
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Thank you so much
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Radiating happiness, the two of you (or three 🙂 )
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Definitely three … Wham the dog went everywhere with the boy. And he’s such a well-behaved dog.
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Just as well he didn’t drop him in that river below!
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Totally. We had to retrieve him from so many places; but they were mostly cleaner than the Cam.
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Aww, adorable, both of you. 🙂 ❤
janet
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🙂
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Speaking as someone living in England – you are not missing much Su!
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Mostly I’m missing my mum and brothers.
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Sorry Su, I get that. I am just really fed up with this country in general right now.
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I get that! I am feeling anxious and angry at how things here have taken a recent lurch to the loony-right and know I’d be an absolute wreck if I were living in the UK or US right now.
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Aww – such a sweet photo! And how lovely that he still has his dog!
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😀
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