Churchyards and cemeteries hold great fascination for family historians. Headstone inscriptions can provide invaluable clues to an ancestor’s life, and in the process of finding one person, it’s not uncommon to discover other family members buried nearby.
They are also places of contemplation.
The tiny village of Kirkmichael in rural Perthshire, is where my 4x great grandparents, James Wallace (1799-1874) and Ann Kinnison/Cunnison (1806-1882) lived and died.
They lie in the bottom corner of the kirkyard, down by the burn; their lives commemorated by a headstone bearing the following inscription:
Erected by
CHARLES WALLACE
Greeley Colorado USA
in memory of his father
JAMES WALLACE
who died at Benauld, Kirkmichael
20th March 1874 aged 74
and his mother
ANN KINNISON
who died at Blairgowrie
18 February 1882, aged 78.
The above Charles Wallace
died 16 May 1925
Interred in Greeley Cemetery Col. USA
I’ve visited the graves of quite a few ancestors now, but the Kirkmichael visit stays in my mind particularly. Partly because it was such an isolated place — I was totally alone there — and partly because James and Ann are the oldest links in the chain of my history whose physical resting place I’ve touched.
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First of all, the editing you used here is just right for the subject. Secondly, I was astonished to see Greeley, Colorado, as that’s where I went to grad school years ago. 🙂
janet
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Wow!!! Until I read that headstone, I had no idea that any of my family members had emigrated to the part of the US. I have made some attempts to research his life, but US records are all a bit unfamiliar to me.
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Have you been able to connect with Greeley’s descendants?
I know how amazing it is to stand over the graves of our distant ancestors. I always think—what would they be thinking? Do any of us imagine that anyone will visit our graves more than a hundred years after we died?
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I haven’t done much research on the Greeley people at all. American records are new to me and I’m still finding my way around.
I know what you mean about ancestors’ graves. I do have little conversations with them — especially the women. My life is so different to anything they could have dreamed of.
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Yes—can you imagine what they would even think of the facts that (a) we found them using the internet and (b) we can fly across the world to see them.
If you need any help with US research, let me know.
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Thank you Amy. 😀
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Lovely photo Su.
Leslie
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Thanks so much Leslie 🙏
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🙂
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With a bench nearby graveyards are great places for contemplation and reflection. Nice photo, Su!
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That’s so true Peter.
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Researching ancestors is a fascinating hobby,
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Certainly is, and it can take so much time. I haven’t really done any new research for ages.
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I have a NZ friend who wrote a family history and when researching every holiday was spent going to graveyards
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😀 We’re not quite there yet, but our South Island trip earlier in the year did involve several large detours for graveyards, and I spent a week in Scotland a few years ago doing just family research.
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So is there a book in the pipeline?
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Quite a long pipeline 😂
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Love the antique affect.
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Such a lovely edit of this photo Su. I wouldn’t have a clue where any of my ancestors are buried.
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Thanks Jude. About 80 percent of my ancestors, going back the five or so generations that I’ve been able to research, were born, lived and died in Fife, largely in parishes that kept very good records and where the past may be built around but isn’t generally torn down. I have been incredibly lucky.
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Beautifully edited shot, Su! I have a fascination for cemeteries too and like imagining what life was like for those resting in these places. It must have felt pretty special that these graves belong to your ancestors. I love the fact that graves are never to be disturbed in Great Britain. Over here it’s normally 25 years and after that the family can buy time for another 10 years or so. Except the old ones from around the millennial before the last, but only if they were wealthy enough.
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Thank you Sarah. I hadn’t heard of burial plots being leased, and having to be renewed, until a friend in South Australia told me. It seems also bizarre!!
In my wandering around cemeteries I have found so many interesting headstones that have prompted me to research the person, and discovered some incredibly interesting and often sad stories —including a 17 year old girl fatally shot by a rejected lover. This happened in the 1880s in a suburban Auckland street. Gun violence has never been common in NZ — even now — and so this was a story very extensively reported. I’m glad that we don’t disturb our dead; they have so much to tell us.
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What a tragic story about the girl shot by a rejected lover! But I’m glad to hear that gun violence still isn’t common in NZ – there’s enough of it in the rest of the world. 😯
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It is getting worse sadly, but still less than so many places — for which I am very grateful. 🙂
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Whenever I’m traveling I always try to visit the local graveyard. I does tell lot about a community how you bury your dead.
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That’s very true.
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