Since the boy-child moved out, my mornings have generally become more leisurely. I can wake according to my body-clock rather than the dictates of Auckland traffic.
Freed from cooking teenager-sized breakfasts, packing lunches and constantly, constantly reminding the boy to HURRY UP, breakfast has become a time for planning and contemplation; a little oasis of calm where I prepare for the day.
I have my grandmother’s silver jam jar holder, and while once I would have thought it ridiculous to use something like that just to hold jam (which, let’s face it, comes in its own jar) I now appreciate not only the simple beauty of the object, but the connection it gives me to the woman whose name I bear, and whom I know only from photographs and my father’s memories.
This post was written for the Daily Post Photo Challenge. This week’s theme is morning.
Ah, woman after my own heart with your love of items that connect you to people from the past…. I have a small but valued collection of such things
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Thanks Sue. I have very few heirlooms, so each is incredibly precious. More so as time passes and I realise how tenuous our connections to others are.
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I very much agree
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Oh, Y-U-M!
Hurrah for leisurely wake-ups in beautiful settings.
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Very nice Su – hope you have a wonderful day! 🙂
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Thanks Terry. Hope you’re doing ok and settling into your new life.
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That is a lovely jam jar and it was your grandmother’s – that makes it extra special.
Leslie
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Thanks Leslie; it does.
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Lovely photo and what a special jam jar. It just adds that bit extra to your mornings.
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Thanks Raewyn; that’s exactly it. Using nice stuff makes even little things feel more special.
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It must be a bit bittersweet. I do recall that sense of calm and quiet—no arguing, no nagging, no cleaning up after a teenager, etc. I loved it, but I also knew it meant the end of a time in my life that would never come back. For better and for worse.
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You’re right Amy. I do miss him (although he lives about 10 minutes away and visits often). I’m focusing on the positives, like being able to control my time, and enjoying watching him mature having to shoulder nephew responsibilities.
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Good idea—there are definitely positives!! And we do want them to grow up and become adults, so it’s all positive in the long run.
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The very best way to start the day!
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Sounds like some great mornings!
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Mornings are my favourite time of day with my coffee and percolating plans for the day. I like your idea of adding something special that connects you to the past. Beautiful touch!!
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Mine too (especially now)! I also like using the beautiful stuff we have, and used to save for “special.” Every day is special. 🙂
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Couldn’t agree more!
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We become empty nesters on August 20th. I shall take this as inspiration.
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Is this a “going away to college” nest emptying? I was lucky he only decided to move into a flat with friends and is (quite literally) 10 minutes or so up the road. The nest is emptying in stages.
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Su, this is a beautiful still life, filled with love and memories. Positively delicious.
janet
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Thank you so much Janet. 🙂
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